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Being caught up in a fashion fad might do more than just make us look older than we need to. It may give the impression that we are out of touch with the times and more of a holdover from the past than an active participant in the present. And many of us are unwilling to embrace that title, let alone accept it.
We may move into the current and mainstream without compromising our individual style by following a few simple recommendations, even if we don’t have a lot of money. We will still be able to communicate our unique fashion truths, even if we have to turn down the volume on some of our favorite trends. Discover 10 best fashion suggestions by reading on. (Also, check out some essential fashion pieces for older ladies here.)
- Excessive bling
If anything bedazzled is your favorite hue, please put the glue gun down. A little twinkle is perfectly OK; just don’t have too much of a good thing. Consider my rhinestone-studded denim espadrilles, which glitter on my insteps. They offer a little fun and whimsy, and they make me grin as they catch the sun while I walk. However, I purposefully stay away from anything else that glitters when I wear them, such as large statement necklaces, chandelier earrings, studs, rivets, or metallic stitching on my T-shirt or jeans. For a single ensemble, these two shoes are more than enough sparkle.
- Choosing denim that is distressed
Jeans with tears and rips are one of the few items that shout “trying too hard.” These belong in our scrapbooks from the 1980s, along with acid washes. Choose jeans with raw, frayed, or chunky hems that look like they’re caught in a bicycle chain if you want denim that’s a little more edgy. For a more up-to-date look, pair them with strappy sandals or vintage sneakers.
- Ignoring the patterns
Even before we speak, our look conveys a great deal about who we are. We can be giving the impression that we’re out of touch and don’t give a damn if we ignore changing trends. Rather, choose a few styles that suit your lifestyle and you each season. Pay attention to the signature silhouettes, color schemes, and styling tips. This means wearing large, flowy blouses over body-skimming tank tops in tones of orange, bubblegum pink, and Kelly green throughout the latter days of summer. The Daisy Dukes are swapped out for Bermuda shorts, while thin jeans are pushed aside in favor of flared ones.
- Putting comfort first
Comfort has led to a number of regrettable actions. I think of plastic shoes and loose shapes. However, neither is required. You may be both comfortable and up to date in a post-lockdown environment. Spandex can help us avoid going overboard with looseness while yet giving our pants and T-shirts the subtle flexibility we want. More fitted items, such as skirts, dresses, and pants, even feature drawstring waistlines, concealed elastic waistbands, and smocking to add shape without compromising comfort. In terms of shoes, wedges and platform alternatives give the height of heels with the added advantages of comfort and stability, while slides and sandals provide comfort without being clumsy.
- Taking things too far
Overly tight or loose-fitting clothing can make us appear older than we need to be. Clothing that is too tight draws attention to the rolls, lumps, and bumps we have accumulated over the years. The finest method is tough love: if it binds or hurts your body, don’t think twice about moving on. That applies to both new purchases and things that have been relegated to the back of your closet. No matter how ingeniously worded, a tight undergarment is still a girdle, so don’t try to fix the problem by wearing it. Rather than gripping at your contours, go for a more forgiving alternative that skims them. But watch out for the other extreme: loose-fitting clothing. Their increased volume might make our bodies appear mushy and undefined, which can add years.
- Looking like Rapunzel
It’s time to stop and think about getting a big cut if your hair is falling anywhere close to your waist. Mature hair needs a lot more maintenance than most of us have the time or tolerance for since it is drier, coarser, and more fragile. Choose a length that ends halfway down your back rather than trying to match Rapunzel’s. Without being overly heavy and antiquated, that is still long enough for spectacular tosses and flowing waves.
- Leaving everything hanging
Although the tunic top has its benefits, you are losing out on a chance to access stylish, pleasing looks if you simply let it hanging there. Form and visual interest can be achieved by simply tucking the front of a tunic (or a button-down shirt, for that matter) into the waistband of shorts, jeans, or skirts. Additionally, it can hide the back view while camouflaging any fluffiness in the waist.
- Excessive logo flashing
Are there more logos on your clothing than at an outlet store? It’s likely that you have fallen victim to the branding trap set by astute marketers worldwide. You can have too many logos, just like bling. Once more, the key is to keep the quantity to one or two (ideally of the same brand).
- Selecting unflattering hues
Not everyone looks fine in certain colors or silhouettes. We must therefore refrain from jumping on a trend without first determining whether it would suit us. Prime examples are blush and the other skin-toned hues that enthralled influencers for years. Too frequently, complexions that had existed for more than a few decades lost color due to such naked tones. Understanding how your skin tone affects what flatters you is essential to choosing the right colors. As one might anticipate, people with cool undertones look their best in the cool side of the color wheel, which includes deep purples, rosy reds, and vivid blues. The greatest options for warm skin tones are natural hues like moss, coral, and amber. Making the most attractive choices from the most popular shades of any season can be facilitated by keeping these tips in mind.
- Holding on to the past
Like an ant in amber, we become stuck in time when we continue to wear clothes that were appropriate for us twenty years ago. When, after hours of internet searching, you are unable to locate your favorite neckline, skirt, purse, or bra style, you will know you have reached the expiration date. Either irritation or enlightenment can result from hitting that wall. It will be obvious to the smart lady that something needs to change.
